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About Antoinette

WELCOME!

Nice to meet you. I am Antoinette, a Female Sensual Lifestyle & Relationship Coach for Women.

Everything I teach as a Female Sensual Lifestyle & Relationship Coach for Women are things that I’ve had to learn on my own.

I was the ugly duckling and outcast at a small private school of 30 kids per class while growing up. I dreaded going to school because all the boys would look at me and call me this super mean name during class. This was so incredibly uncomfortable. No one told them to stop. All I wanted to do was hide, curl up into a ball and cry.

I wasn’t accepted by the girls either. I was tall, lanky, underdeveloped, had braces for 5 years and wore ugly glasses. They didn’t want to hang out with me either because I was unpopular with the boys. I yearned to be popular and beautiful like the other girls in my class.

I would go home and cry in my room. There was much sibling rivalry while growing up, my parents were not around, and didn’t feel the support there either. My mother would tell me that in order for me to be beautiful, I needed to get plastic surgery. Plus, my dad wasn’t available either. I was miserable, depressed, lonely, insecure and at time suicidal because I didn’t feel loved by anyone! I actually didn’t know what love was.

I felt rejected from everyone around me!

I was miserable.

I cried out to a higher force one day and demanded, “I want to be happy!”

This was the start of my a brand new phase in my life.

Being confident, radiant, sensually empowered and playful were all things that unraveled on my journey of self transformation.

During my first love relationship, I brought all of my insecurities to the relationship. Every day I asked Matt if he loved me and or if he thought that I was sexy. He grew tired of this and one day he said, “If you were more confident then you would be more attractive.” So, I now how it feels to have low self esteem and be insecure in relationship.

Also, I was closed off sexually when we were together. I didn’t feel secure in my own body, and I stored all the rejection that I experienced from the past in my belly, hips, womb, pelvis….the part of my body that was related to sexuality. Our sex life was non existent because sex was incredibly painful and it brought up all my insecurities about my body from the past.

This was the start of my journey of self empowerment and self love.

I moved to Oregon after Matt and I broke up. I was living in Oregon at Lost Valley Educational Center. This was an amazing time in my life. I remember taking a workshop where we had to face our insecurities about our bodies. I felt so uncomfortable facing this fear, but it was time. It was AMAZING being able love my body in a new way. The breakthrough was that being sexy was a state of mind, not how I looked.

As I look back, my body was a road map of my personal journey.

Every place that I held pain, fear, chronic self doubt and insecurity created a knot in my emotional or spiritual body. I traveled to many far away places like India, Thailand, New Zealand, Malaysia, Maui, Mexico to name a few where I studied with many Master Teachers in the world. I got certifications in Reiki and Energy Healing, Vipassana Meditation, and studied intensively the Empowered Feminine Traditions of Tantra for 4 years with a few teachers, including Nita Rubio. Plus, I learned interpersonal relationship skills, conscious communication, how to understand men, and how to embrace the empowered feminine in relationship. Each knot that I was holding in my body unraveled as I faced the doubt, insecurity, awkwardness and pain. When I was able to feel and love the parts of me that were “ugly” something magical happened. My body felt free and I was able to play again. I was able to feel sensations in my body that I’ve never experienced before. I was able to experience full body orgasms without sex. My life was opening up in new ways that I never knew was possible.

I was experiencing pleasure, beauty and bliss as my birthright!

As my body opened up, so did my self confidence, radiance and connection to my body’s own wisdom. I gained powerful insights on how to attract the opposite sex. I took this wisdom and used it on my own. The results were amazing.

In addition, I love investigating men and the masculine energy through the amazing relationships that were brought my way. Each person that came into my life, I learned about being feminine, attractive, sensual and magnetic. Of course, I took workshops about men, read books, interviewed men, but more than anything, it was getting to know men on a personal level that I learned the most.

I learned what men craved in a woman!

What I teach women is what I’ve had to learn first hand. So, if you feel ugly, awkward, self conscious, I can hold your hand and help you to feel relaxed and sexy in your own skin. Maybe you don’t feel safe expressing your sensual nature because you’ve had bad experiences in the past. I know how you feel. I can help you feel safe and sensual in your own body! I want you to experience pleasure and beauty as your nature….even have you experience orgasms just from eating a piece of chocolate.

When I started my own business, my energy got tight, closed and rigid because I thought I had to be masculine in business. I didn’t know that being a successful entrepreneur would be one of my biggest challenges in my life! This affected my dating and love life! I forgot how to be playful and feminine. Then I hired a success coach named Gina DeVee who taught feminine principles in business. http://estherexperience.com. She helped me integrate my empowered feminine principles that I learned for so many years and adapt it to my business life! If you’ve been consumed with work, are in your brain all day or you’ve forgotten how to be FEMININE, FLIRTY AND FUN. Maybe you come on too strong with men. It’s the radiance and vitality that keeps us youthful and attractive to the opposite sex regardless of age. I have powerful tools and a lifestyle to be a success at work and Manifest the Right Man ~ the Empowered Feminine Way!

If you’ve had your heart closed, have negative beliefs about men, or you might even be jaded by men and relationships. I can help you open up your heart again to love. I can help you heal the past, so you can LOVE, support, and attract the RIGHT MAN!