Do you experience the same dynamics in your relationships over and over again? Although while you are experiencing it, it’s maddening and heartbreaking; relationship déjἁ vu actually holds great insight into what you ultimately want to learn this lifetime.

When we live unconsciously our lives run us in a never-ending attempt to hopefully help us learn what it is we wanted to learn this lifetime. Before we are even born, at the Spirit level, we lay out a game plan for our upcoming lifetime that includes exploring and learning certain essential life lessons. These lessons not only help us individually evolve as spiritual beings, but they also help us all evolve as a collective.

If you think back throughout history, consider the evolution of humankind. All of our evolution has revolved around the lessons we learn whether emotionally, mentally or physically – our individual growth means the growth of humankind.

Let’s get back to your relationship déjà vu. Why do you attract the same person time and time again? Even though you think ‘this time’ he’s a totally different guy, 6 months or a year into your relationship you realize you have the same guy all over again.

The answer is really simple, wrapped up in the repeating theme of your relationship is at least one powerful and life changing lesson. If you can figure out what the life lesson is and start to learn it, you can change your pattern where your relationships are concerned.

In fact, the more conscious you become to the insight that all of your relationships hold (intimate, family, work, casual) the more your life will be yours to create.

To help you unravel this mystery, think about the reoccurring theme in your relationships.  Maybe it’s losing your identity, maybe it’s being cheated on, maybe it’s being the unhealthy object of desire.  Whatever it is, write down the reoccurring theme and how it has reappeared in different relationships.  Our life lessons fall in to three basic genres – standing in our own power, speaking our truth or self-validation.  Take some time to sit with these and see if you can figure out what your reoccurring lessons are trying to get you to learn. As you unravel this mystery, you will be able to then work on this lesson consciously, rather than needing it to show up unconsciously in your relationships.

It is only in our unconsciousness that life pulls us along. As soon as you wake-up to your life lessons, you will no longer need someone to push against, or someone to motivate you to learn. You’ll be able to see, unravel, learn, heal and grow however you choose.

© 2012 Christine Agro, All Rights Reserved.

Christine Agro is a clairvoyant, metaphysical expert and author of 50 Ways To Live Life Consciously: 8 tools and 42 Concepts to Help You Live Life Consciously. She is founder of The Conscious Living Guide, a membership website designed to help you unravel your life’s lessons. Get a free copy of 50 Ways To Live Life Consciously when you sign-up as a 1 month member at TheConsciousLivingGuide.com

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MJ Domet

“I really thought this one was different.” How many times have you heard that from a friend or said it yourself? His looks were intriguing, he had a dissimilar type of job and, for awhile, treated you differently; but, the reality was the relationship ended pretty much the same as the last one, or two, or three. So, what is going on? Why do you keep choosing the same man over and over again even though you have made a conscious effort not to.

The one common denominator is you! In order to change the result something in the formula has to be modified. In order to rewrite the ending, start with a new beginning. The one thing proven over and over again is that we are unable to change anyone but ourselves. That eliminates the other person in the relationship, so working on the main character is the only choice left. I am not speaking about losing weight, cutting your hair or any other physical trivialities. I am talking about changing what really counts; the limiting self beliefs you carry inside yourself.

You attract the feelings, attitudes and beliefs you hold about yourself. If you are wanting a long lasting, connected relationship but feel as if you don’t deserve it; or that you will never have one because nobody in your family ever committed to anything for long; you are sabotaging any union before it begins. The people coming into your life are sensing -at an energetic level- the hesitations you have. Working at understanding any limiting beliefs you hold around yourself and choosing to release them will activate new energy resulting in a renewed attitude and a fresh perspective around your relationships.

It takes some inner strength to really look at yourself, but once you do the results are well worth it. One important thing to remember is that there is nothing wrong with you or the men you attract. Life lessons come in all forms as do the teachers of them.

When I was newly married years ago, I had very low self esteem which was reflected within my relationship with my husband. His treatment of me was echoic of how I felt about myself. Making inner changes gave me the strength to leave him. This resilience led to interesting consequences as we did resume our relationship some months later, same two players but with different attitudes. The relationship became one of balance, trust and interestingly, independence as we each came to realize we were two different people contributing to a marriage; not two people trying to make a marriage work.

Looking deep inside yourself, you can find those preconceived beliefs which are creating relationship issues. When you do, be sure to eliminate all those beliefs which are not serving a useful purpose but treasure those which make you the beautiful person you are inside.

M.J. Domet

Marilyn Dometraschuk, known in the literary world as M.J. Domet, is the owner and founder of The Gemini Potential, a company that focuses on personal development, by providing counselling services, seminars, and workshops. She is the winner of the Ashford Radio 2012 Inspirational Author of the Year Award.

Marilyn offers an array of products and services which includes Deep Healing Emotional Energy, Reiki, and Face Reading. She has several workshops ranging from her various classes, along with presentations and seminars on spiritual and self empowerment topics. Her primary goal is to assist people in reaching their potential at all levels and live limitlessly with passion and purpose. Her book, Waves of Blue Light: Heal The Heart and Free the Soul, is helping people gain a new perspective on their lives.

MJ Domet Contact:

www.expecttobeempowered.com

expecttobeempowered@gmail.com

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