Everything I teach as a sensual empowerment and dating coach are things that I’ve had to learn on my own. I was the ugly duckling and outcast at a small private school of 30 kids per class while growing up. I dreaded going to school because all the boys would look at me and call me this super mean name during class. This was so incredibly uncomfortable. No one told them to stop. All I wanted to do was hide, curl up into a ball and cry.
I wasn’t accepted by the girls either. I was tall, lanky, flat chested, had braces for 5 years and wore ugly glasses. I remember hating going to the locker rooms before gym class because I did not want them to see me changing. I was a super late bloomer, and was waiting for my bra to fill out like the other girls did. They didn’t want to be good friends with me because I was awkward and unpopular with the boys.
I would go home and cry in my room. There was much sibling rivalry while growing up and didn’t feel the support there either.
I was miserable.
I cried out to a higher force one day and demanded, “I want to be happy!”
This was the start of my a brand new phase in my life. Being confident, radiant, sensually empowered and playful were all things that unraveled on my journey of self transformation. During my first love relationship, I brought all of my insecurities to the relationship. Every day I asked Matt if he loved me and or if he thought that I was sexy. He grew tired of this and one day he said, “If you were more confident then you would be more attractive.” So, I now knew what it feels to be ugly and insecure. I started a journey of self love from then on.
I moved to Oregon after I broke up with Matt. I was living in Oregon at Lost Valley Educational Center. This was an amazing time in my life. I remember taking a workshop were we had to face our insecurities about our bodies. I felt so uncomfortable facing this fear, but it was time. The breakthrough was that being sexy was a state of mind, not how I looked.
As I look back, my body was a road map of my personal journey. Every place that I held pain, fear, chronic self doubt and insecurity created a knot in my emotional or spiritual body. I traveled to many far away places where I studied with many master teachers in the world. Each knot that I was holding in my body unraveled as I faced the doubt, insecurity, awkwardness and pain. When I was able to feel and love the parts of me that were “ugly” something magical happened. My body felt free and I was able to play again. I was able to feel sensations in my body that I’ve never experienced before.
As my body opened up, so did my self confidence. I gained powerful insights on how to attract the opposite sex.
What I teach women is what I’ve had to learn first hand. So, if you feel ugly, awkward or self conscious, I can hold your hand and help you to feel relaxed and sexy in your own skin. If I can, you can feel the same way too.
If you’ve been consumed with work, are in your brain all day or you’ve forgotten how to access that playful and sensual spirit. I have powerful tools to help you live sexy, soulful and sensational to the opposite sex. It’s the radiance and vitality that keeps us youthful and attractive to the opposite sex regardless of age.
If you’ve had your heart closed or think negatively about men, and then you wonder why you don’t meet great men out there. I can help you open up your heart again to life.
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I woke up this morning not realizing that it was International Women’s Day. In my meditation, I asked how can I be of service to women today. I thought about the women in my life and the work that I do. I had some unresolved resentment and hurt in my heart from women that I was close to. A voice inside of me said, “It’s time to forgive, let go and love.” So, I listened. I brought up one by one a woman in my past that I hadn’t resolved conflict or hurt between us. I opened up my heart, and forgave myself for the contribution that I made in the conflict. As my heart released, I forgave that woman as well. My heart opened wider, I held this woman in a place of unconditional love and saw her as a gift to the world. I felt a lot of love, light and power around me. Deep down inside I knew that I was doing this for all women.
