It’s Spring and it’s definitely a ripe time to meet a great man.  If you have been connecting to your feminine magnetism, you probably are attracting lots of men. 

Why?  Because men crave your feminine ways!!

If you are dating a few men right now, how do you know which one is the best one for you?

Or if you are dating a man, how do you he is your soul mate?

When I coach women, and something that I’ve experienced in my own life is that using your feminine intuition is one of your most valuable tools when it comes to attracting the right man.

Why?  It’s your own internal guiding system that tells you tells you if this guy is the right one for you.  I know from experience and from coaching many women, that if you don’t trust what messages you are receiving from your own intuition when it comes to love and relationship, there’s a high chance that you might not be succeeding in love!

For example, I was dating a man a few years ago.  We had a “connection”, but my intuition kept telling me that he wasn’t the right man for me.  Because of our “connection”  I continued to date him and didn’t listen to what my intuition was telling me.  Guess what?  The break up was pretty ugly, and it took some time for my heart to heal.  LESSON LEARNED!!

Another client of mine keeps attracting men who are horn dogs.  Intuitively she knows before she goes out on the date that he is up to now good, but doesn’t listen to her intuition and set boundaries. The dates end up not turning out that great.   Luckily nothing bad has happened to her.

LISTEN TO YOUR INTUITION NO MATTER WHAT WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIP!

Your own body is constantly sending you messages and guiding you to help you along the way.

Are you listening?

Do you know how to use your intuition correctly?

With my personal coaching, I am able to personally guide you to and give you the step by process to use your intuition and set boundaries in relationship.

The more you use your intuition and set boundaries, you are that much closer to manifesting the right man to you!!!

Are you ready to manifest your man?

Are you willing to do what it takes to make this happen?

If you are committed to meeting your soul mate, then I am offering you a complimentary MANIFEST YOUR MAN SESSION to look at your unique dating situation. In this no-obligation session, I can pinpoint your blind spots and see if Manifesting Your Man is truly the way to go for you for 2012!  Reserve your complimentary MANIFEST YOUR MAN SESSION with me by emailing me at info@antoinettecabral.com. 5 spots only!!

Mikaya Heart

As a culture, we have tremendous misunderstanding about what love is, and that misunderstanding causes more failed relationships than anything else. But we are also unduly influenced by the culture when we’re choosing a partner, and we frequently prioritise external considerations of eligibility over our own personal requirements of a partner. Perhaps most importantly of all, many of us haven’t learned the art of listening to someone else and we don’t know how to express ourselves clearly so someone else can hear us.

1. Love is not what makes a relationship work. You may fall in love with someone but what will make a good relationship is compatibility and the ability to communicate. It’s really great if you love someone too, and if you have great sex then at least you know you are compatible in that arena – but does he like to live the same way as you do? Does he have the same aspirations and values? Does he treat you the way you want to be treated? In other words, are the two of you compatible? There is nothing wrong with wanting different things in life, but if you hate TV and he wants to spend every evening watching it, a relationship won’t work in the long run, no matter how much you love him or how great the sex is.

2.   Look at him from your point of view, not from the culture’s point of view. He may appear to others to be very eligible (goodlooking and hardworking, for instance)  – but does he turn you on? It doesn’t matter what a great catch other people say he is; if you think he’s boring or dishonest or anything else less than complimentary, or if you don’t like the way he touches you, then don’t waste your time trying to form a relationship with him. You can’t make intimacy work just because your family and friends want it to work.

3.   Clear communication enables you to negotiate your needs, so that you can both work together to get what is right for each other. You want to make it a win-win situation, and you can only do that if you are clear about what you want. It’s about listening without judgment and without jumping to conclusions. Let him have his say and check out that you have heard him correctly. Then state your needs as clearly as you can, and make sure he has understood what you are saying. This means you must think about what it is you need very carefully. Most women are far too ready to give up what they need in order to make their partners happy- and this does not work in the long run, it only leads to resentment.

It’s often in the arena of communication that you will see the first red flags. Is he listening to you? Is he treating the interchange more as a form of competition than a form of cooperation? Don’t gloss over this kind of behavior – you cannot have a rewarding relationship with someone who doesn’t value you enough to listen to what you have to say.

Bio: Mikaya Heart is an award-winning author and a life coach, using shamanistic methods to help people operate from a base of trust instead of fear. She is based in northern California. Her latest book is The Ultimate Guide to Orgasm for Women. www.mikayaheart.org

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